“As far as your self control goes, as far goes your freedom.” Marie Von Edner-Eschenbach
Mac Bledsoe in Parenting With Dignity says that rules give you freedom. I agree. Rules provide a structure whereby you can practice your freedoms and appreciate them. They give responsibility and self-control which allows the trust needed to do bigger and better things. In prison this is how I get beyond its walls. More privileges are afforded me; I have more personal space; and, most of all, I’m able to appreciate and enjoy the freedom I do have–instead of being out there always complaining about it.
“When one door closes, another opens, but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we don’t see the one which has opened for us.” Alexander Graham Bell
When the door closed on my life outside with my family all I could do was to stare through that keyhole for the longest time. But then a door beside that door opened–slapping me up against my backside. It was the door to the rest of my life. And there, behind it, was my family waiting for me.
“The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today.”. H. Jackson Brown
I try to have good habits because I know they’re the best way to be prepared. Yesterday I did my very best to get to sleep early–in spite of all the racket all around me. Then low and behold, I woke up today refreshed and ready to roll–at 3:30 in the morning.