“People are just about as happy as they make their minds up to be.” Abraham Lincoln
I knew this one taciturn grumpy type who, at least to me, seemed to almost enjoy being unfriendly. But then once we got to know each other–and I earned his trust–he let his guard down. After that he’d let me know when and why he was bummed out by walking the track with me. Those were the times he’d want someone around who preferred to choose to be happy–rather than someone he could so easily bum out and run off.
“Knowledge is power.” Sir Francis Bacon
“I think, therefore, I am” is a quote Rene Descartes also said. And, therefore, it follows that when you think, you gain knowledge and the power to exist. The other day I was “pulled up” in front of the guys by a TC member who I felt had been looking forward to embarrassing me. And, at that moment, I must admit I suddenly felt I no longer existed–at least in the others’ eyes. But when I noticed the smirk on his face and realized he just wanted to get under my skin, I knew if I calmly thanked him it’d really piss him off. And it did.
“it is not good enough to have a good mind; the main thing is to use it well.” Rene Descartes
Before I committed my crime I considered myself a pretty smart and aware guy. Well, we all know where that got me. Now I cling to the hope that if I can help others realize they’re not as smart and aware as they might think they are then I may finally have used my mind well.